BREAKTHROUGH

to LOVE

An 8 LEVEL Intensive Training for men who want more out of their relationship: 
 Transform fear, anger, and hurt
Heal your deepest wounds,
to unleash your incredible
power to love! 

Your task is not

to seek for love,

but merely to seek and

find all the barriers

within yourself

that you have built

against it. 

- Rumi

You have been 

honest and brave so far...

Discovering
what holds you back from loving and being loved fully: your Relationship Saboteur...
Now, are you ready for more...? 
EASY
Passionate
Powerful
FUN
TRUE
LOVE
Joyful
SOULFUL
DEEPly
FULFILLING
LASTING

So many reasons come to mind for me personally as a husband and father. See what resonates for you: 

I need it!

Even though I created this process and have transformed my marriage -- from wanting to leave to happily staying -- I am humbled as I still need to re-visit and transform some issues driving my wife and I a bit crazy! I am in it to lead it AND to go through myself -- again and again to keep evolving my power to love. 

I cannot find anything as potent and effective...

Honestly, I haven't found anything out there that compares in depth, motivation, and the high level of support. I find coaching and therapy are a hit and miss. Coaching is often (not always) not deep enough and couples therapy too slow for me. AND I am a therapist myself!

 

I am part of many men's groups, and value their support in helping me grow. Yet, when I bring up issues with my wife, I find the process and the men just don't know how to help me in a way that fully honours my side as well as my wife's and holds me to be most powerful in repairing the sacred bond between us. It easily turns into taking my side or treating this as just my own issue -- not as it really is -- a relational dance.

As a sensitive and soulful man...

To go deep and do my healing, I need a super honest and accepting community of men, equally committed to be there with me. I also long to include soulful elements and adventure into the mix because "Hey, evolving my marriage ain't about doing some tedious f*ing 'work'! It's about the most tender, sacred, and mysterious dance I have in LOVE with my wife, damn it!!!"

What kind of RESULTS
could you experience?

Less CRITICism, MORE CLOSENESS

LET go of trying to fix and 

find your own POWER

Learn to HEAL HURT 

(and other painful emotions)

SPARK more

PASSION & pleasure

Unleash more 

FREEDOM & FUN!

Letting go of criticism, disappointment and disgust to seeing clearly and loving more fully.

START cultivating

LASTING LOVE

Letting go of self-centeredness to embrace the dynamic and fulfilling reality of interdependence.   

Why this? Why now? 
  • Release the desire to FIX yourself or your partner.

  • Discover your power to both accept and influence your partner to grow. 

  • Feel more assured, confident, at ease with your partner. 

  • Gather vital ALLIES who will cheer you on and hold you accountable!

  • Get your HEART's COMPASS to help you navigate the journey ahead. 

  • Deepen your CONNECTION with your PARTNER, getting their support. 

CREATE

your

LOVE MAP

Gather

your

ALLIES

AWAKEN

your

HEART

Take off

your

MASK

  • Get crystal CLEAR about the quality of love and relationship you long for.

  • Discover your deepest WHY, that will make your journey forward irresistible. 

  • Make a deeper COMMITMENT to make your success inevitable! 

Why not just do it on your own?

The 5 Pitfalls of D.I.Y

1. Going SOLO and shunning help.

2. Getting STUCK in loops of painful

    emotion like shame, guilt, anger, etc.

3. Trying to eternally FIX your partner     and your marriage.

4. BLAMING and being CRITICAL

    with yourself

5. Doing it FOR YOUR PARTNER

    (and failing, AGAIN)

The 5 Core Features of Breakthrough to Love

1. Honest, tight and confidential               COMMUNITY.

2. Cutting edge GUIDANCE on shifting         painful emotions quickly. 

3. Radical ACCEPTANCE and            

    RESPECT for each other’s journey.

4. Balms of COMPASSION and    

   FORGIVENESS to transform self-

    criticism.

5. Unexpectedly fun and empowering     challenges and ADVENTURES.

  • Translate judgment into honesty & helpful discernment. 

  • Melt the edge of your CRITIC to become more confident and compelling. 

  • Feel more relaxed, clear and connected to your self and your partner. 

How does it actually work?