When you're ready to get serious about all your relationships...

Starting with the most important ones

(to yourself and your partner)

You've struggled enough... 

You've tried and failed to...

  • FIGURE IT OUT, by watching videos and reading all the relationship and conflict resolution books you could. Your relationships seem more complicated and the interactions too messy to sort out with simplistic solutions. 

  • FIX (er HELP) your loved one(s). They are as stubborn as you are and either not ready to change or need to do it their own way. 

  • TRADITIONAL SUPPORTS, going through channels for help (therapy, men's groups, online support) but finding yourself more confused and defeated by how hard it's been to make any significant changes.  

Done with the bullshit?

Now, you may

be ready to...

  • Put down your mask(s) - the ones you use to hide your true self.  

  • Drop trying to please others to start creating more ease and joy! 

  • Stop lying to yourself that you can be happy as a lone wolf.

  • Be the one who changes the pattern, stopping the stupid fights between you and your partner (boss or kids) to transform conflict into deeper connection.

  • Let go of being the victim and to step into your full power.

  • Tame the instinct to criticize and blame to create more of the passion and love you seek. 

A new paradigm
(This ain't your daddy's men's group)

You are wise enough

to know that... 

  • It's not about YOU!

Focusing on your personal goals is not going to cut it. Neither is navel gazing to find your purpose. ​​

  • It's not complicated 

Figuring out RELATIONSHIPS means a radical shift from ME to WE. It means going from the head to our hearts. This is a short yet deep journey which terrifies most men. Those who brave it, gain clarity, courage and deep satisfaction. 

  • Impact on others is the key

To understand our power and to evolve into our potential as men, we have to start by looking at our impact on others (especially those closest to us).

  • It's not meant to be "work" 

Instead, relationships are the greatest -- most demanding, rewarding, and also periless ~ adventure a man can ever dare to go on. 

  • We can't do this alone.

We are social and relational pack animals. We need to find others to see our true face, walk with us through the darkness, and join us as we each find our own unique way to greater fulfillment. 

My dare to you... 


IF you're ready to consider

evolving your relationships...

Take a small and financially cost-free, but significant step.

This quick survey (also below) will give you clarity on where you are at and what you are ready to do next. 

We will read it and personally respond to you about any possibilities here. 

AND, if this is not the place for you, we will do our best to refer you to what you may be looking for and needing instead. 

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Every man has one or more of these forces within him which can destroy his relationship. Find out which of the 5 Love Saboteurs is alive for you... 


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PS... WHO are we?

We are a movement inspired by the MLK quote:

"POWER without love is reckless and abusive and

LOVE without power is sentimental and anaemic...."  

Our common purpose is to encourage and challenge one another to become both POWERFUL and LOVING as we learn

to grow and thrive in our most important relationships. 

© 2016 POWERFUL AND LOVING ~ We are men helping one another to heal, grow and thrive in our relationships!