Powerful and loving
MENTORING
You can finally decide
~ to STAY or GO? ~
with the clarity, certainty
and courage necessary to create deeper intimacy and lasting love
Thinking about it: Trying to figure it out on your own.
Made you even more confused!
Talking about it: with your partner and friends.
Seems to bring up insecurity with your partner and everyone has advice and judgments about what you "should" do.
Following experts' advice: all the relationship gurus online and in books make it sound so simple and easy.
Found it hard to actually do and felt like a failure!
Couples Counselling: You went because your partner made you. Or you made them.
It was too expensive, dredging up pain, with no end in sight...
And then you spent some time at
"THE CROSSROADS"
(our free self-help training)...
Missed it? To find out you have 5 options - not 2 - go here
Where, looking back...
...you have ZERO regrets...
...Only gratitude
for how you made
this life-changing decision...
You've already tried...
So, what's it really
going to take to make the
BEST DECISION...?
1
Clarify
FULLY
Answer all your WHY questions dissolving confusion and doubt, and clarify deeper dynamics of emotional sabotage
at play.
2
Commit
FREELY
Transforming sabotage to gain emotional freedom and certainty about how you need to navigate staying or going in the most powerful and loving way.
3
Choose
WISely
Decide with a complete sense of the consequences and possibilities ahead, feeling at peace and united behind the decision you make.
An intensive mentoring program designed by and for men who not only want to decide to stay or go, but to finally breakthrough
to DEEPER INTIMACY
and LASTING LOVE
Because every relationship is complex and unique,
so is the process to make your decision.
The journey from your current place of
indecision and pain towards more
clarity and love is neither easy
nor for the faint of heart.
To do so, you need to embark on a...
Most perilous and rewarding
adventure!
You are the hero explorer...
Mapping out your own relationship landscapE
moving at your own pace...
facing fears + overcoming obstacles
COMPLETIng
challenges to earn clarity & courage
CLARIFY
Through the Labyrinth...
Complete these challenges...
Complete these challenges...
2
CLear & TRANSFORM
HARD FEELINGS
Learn the art and science to discharge and turn around negative emotions getting in the way of you seeing clearly and choosing wisely.
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Track, understand and DIFFUSE the EMOTIONAL WOUNDING that has been making you confused and reactive
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Learn cutting edge tools to gradually DISSOLVE and transform emotions more fully.
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Experience more courage, calm, freedom and peace.
1
FIND your COMPASS
What you think is going on has not given you the clarity you seek. Take a deeper look, to find out:
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WHY you are really unfulfilled.
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WHAT you are missing in your relationship.
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HOW you are sabotaging this relationship and previous ones.
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The 3 DANCES of CONFLICT and PAIN you and your partner are trapped in together.
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The CORE WOUNDS which are triggering the fuck out of your nervous system, flooding you with fear, shame and craving and making it hard to access the clarity you seek.
3
FACE the MINOTAUR(S)
Time to face your relationship demons and stand up to the inner demons and unevolved parts of you, with sure handed support, finally...
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STAND up to the sabotaging inner MINOTAURS getting in the way of your clarity and capacity to LOVE more FREELY.
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RECLAIM your natural COURAGE and ability to continue to CLEAR negative emotions form your nervous system, more fully, quickly and easily than before.
To gain more
Clarity:
About what's really going on...
& Power
over the inner forces that influence you.
My Story
Being a therapist for 14 years and knowing what healthy love can and should look like, didn't keep me from eternally chasing romantic love while pushing real intimacy away.
I was deeply torn about every significant relationship, including my current marriage. I also stayed in some relationships far too long.
And yet, for the life of me, I could not get the clarity, courage and resolve to break these patterns until I gathered the right people and created this intensive step by step intervention for me first!
It continues to be an incredible honour and humbling adventure to help guide men who - like me (watch) and also like Kai (read) - are at the crossroads, ready to break free to deeper intimacy and lasting love.
Only once you are clear
and in your power,
can you progress to
phase 2...
CHOOSE
Making a WISE DECISION
Complete these challenges...
2
Summon COuncil
Gathering all the important voices and allies in your life to...
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TAKE full STOCK of what each part of you wants.
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HEAR honest reflections and impacts from people who matter to you most.
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Come to see the deeper and FULLER TRUTH about the decision you will make.
3
SIT on the throne
Spend time sitting in the seat of your own authority, discerning...
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3 levelled SCENARIO PLANNING of HOW you will realize your decision.
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Address any lingering FEARS and DOUBTS once and for all.
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Awaken the COURAGE, WISDOM and PEACE inside you to step into the decision fully and wholeheartedly.
1
GLIMPSE
the future
Be guided personally to talk to your future self and...
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WALK through the only two paths left to see what is ahead for you.
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Gain further CLARITY about what each choice will bring.
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Know what is absolutely CERTAIN and non negotiable going forward.
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Find REASSURANCE from within yourself.
To gain more
Wisdom:
to discern what is best for all...
& Courage
to make the choice and start acting.
It could end here.
But, that would be leaving you hanging...
and ALONE to do the hardest part...
We want help you with this next chapter too...
CREATE
Nurture and grow
the LOVE you Seek!
Whatever you decide,
We help you to take these
3 NEXT steps...
LEAVING
with power and love
1. HONOURING your past relationship
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Making AMMENDS
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Showing APPRECIATION
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Saying GOODBYE
2. RELEASING HARD FEELINGS
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Expressing and releasing ANGER.
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Feeling and healing GRIEF.
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Facing and overcoming FEARS around starting anew and being alone.
3. CREATING SPACE for NEW LOVE
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Setting clear BOUNDARIES with your ex
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Reaching out to old and new FRIENDS
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Establishing LOVE rituals
STAYING
with power and love
1. RELEASING HARD FEELINGS
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Expressing and releasing RESENTMENT.
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Feeling and healing DISAPPOINTMENTS.
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Facing and overcoming intimacy FEARS.
2. NURTURING the garden of LOVE
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Setting BOUNDARIES with your partner
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Reaching out to old and new FRIENDS
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Establishing couple LOVE rituals.
3. TransformING your current relationship
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Taking 100% RESPONSIBILITY
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Showing genuine APPRECIATION
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Establishing a liberating COMMITMENT
Ready to do what it takes
to finally stop running from love
to liberate yourself to experience
deeper intimacy and integrity?
Why we won't take your money, yet, but insist on this, first...
We don't want to waste your time NOR our patience and energy supporting you IF this really ain't for you. How can we be sure, before starting?
Simply by asking you a few discerning questions, we can suss out if it's worth your time to join us or not.
Click APPLY below to find out and if so, to get a free consult directly with David.
NOT ready? Got more questions? Read below...
We suspect that you've been struggling with your relationship for too long. And we imagine that you've been longing for a truer, deeper and more lasting LOVE, since forever. Right?
So, the question we pose to you, is:
Is it finally your time
to get the clarity, courage and wisdom
you need to either dive in or step out to
create the LOVE your heart
has been longing for?
Find out if this intensive help
is what you need next (or not)?
How do we suss that out?
It's a quick and confidential survey below...